Here’s the hard truth: Looks matter when it comes to dating. Here’s another truth: Not as much as most guys think. Take a look at what happened when I shared the results of my survey on Reddit, where I asked 101 women about men’s style on first dates. People were actually offended that someone would suggest you wear something nice on a date! Look, I’ve been doing this long enough to understand why people were upset.  Their mistake is thinking that the only thing you need to be successful at dating is looking good. That’s not what I’m saying! Great style doesn’t make the man, great style enhances him. I mean, how good is a phone with a beautiful matte black finish and gorgeous screen if it keeps crashing and never works? Any man that’s been on at least a handful of dates knows that attraction and dating is complex. Yes, looks are a…