1/3 rd of my private clients hire me to revamp their style for their dating lives. I shouldn’t need to explain how dating has been extra challenging for all single guys out there this year. But with people being smarter with testing and social distancing, along...
5 Style Tips to Help You Go From Work to a Date
So things are going great, and now you both can't wait til the weekend to see each other. Weeknight dates give you something to look forward to after a long day at work. But there’s a tiny problem… What happens when you don’t have time to go home to change? What the...
You’re Doing First Dates Wrong. Here’s What You Should Be Doing Instead
Today’s question comes from an anonymous reader: “I’m a normal Monday through Friday 9-5er who doesn’t have the most amount of time to date during the week. I’ve been filling my weekend calendar with flakey, half-interested girls (and let the vicious cycle repeat)....
How to Ask a Girl out (And Get Over Your Fear of Rejection)
Ok, if you told 17-year-old Peter guys would be coming to him for dating advice, he would have called you crazy, then asked if you wanted to see a magic trick. Now I’ve come to accept that I am basically a Will Smith Hitch / Ryan Gosling Crazy Stupid Love hybrid,...
5 Ways to Upgrade Your Sex Game (NSFW!)
Today's post comes from my Friday Round-Up email, an email I only send to my newsletter subscribers every Friday where I share things I discover, I'm into, or am trying out. This NSFW edition not only proved to be the most popular Friday Round-Up email I've sent so...
Friends of The Essential Man: Meet Megan of Style Girlfriend
It's crazy to think that I've been in New York for 12 years now. And one of my favorite things about NYC is that in a city of 8.5 million people, you can run into people you know. Take for example last week when I was at my go-to spot The Ace Hotel to catch up with a...
I Asked 101 Women What a Man Should Wear On a First Date
On our first date, my girlfriend and I went to PDT (above), a really cool speakeasy bar here in NYC hidden behind a phone booth in a hot dog shop. They’re known for their amazing cocktails, which we gladly put to the test. If you asked my girlfriend about our...